Love, Dating and Chaos

15 May Am I The Problem? (with Stacey Norman)

42 MIN
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I’ve tried dating apps to see what’s out there. I usually go in hopeful, thinking there must be someone for me. Apparently, there’s not. But I don’t think the problem is me - I think people are messy. Some of them probably shouldn’t be dating at all. Luckily, I have a great bestie—Stacey Norman. She’s a long-term relationship kind of girl, a true serial dater. I’ve always admired that. She’s dated, I haven’t - and I’ve started to wonder: is it me? What am I doing wrong? So I asked her. I needed honest feedback from someone who knows and loves me. Ideally, she tells me it’s not me, men suck - and oh, she’s found me a boyfriend. Let’s hold thumbs. Coming up in the episode: 00:00 Introduction and Personal Dating History 01:21 The Evolution of Dating 01:47 Best Friend's Perspective 03:36 Analysing Past Relationships 14:39 The Challenges of Modern Dating 15:58 Dating App Strategies 17:51 Setting Boundaries and Expectations 18:55 Rules for Online Dating 19:10 The Seven-Day Rule 19:33 First Impressions and Judgments 20:34 A Memorable First Date 23:51 Self-Realisation and Intentions 25:32 The Fear of Vulnerability 30:46 A New Relationship Perspective 37:33 Trusting Your Gut 41:27 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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